Femdom Intimacy
It’s really difficult to write about this topic because it is such a deep and integral part of me …. It’s difficult to get a removed perspective on it.
Suffice to say that there comes a time in a sub’s life when he no longer wants to jump from Domme to Domme, when he wants to give everything to one Domme who will totally dominate him and control every aspect of his life: money, work, sexuality, leisure time, spirituality, and his inner mental and emotional lives. A sub may know quite early on that this is what he wants and aspires to, but he himself may not be ready for such a commitment to a Domme and may not find the right Domme to own and control him when he is ready. The timing is everything. And it’s all much larger and greater than his individual consciousness.
Nevertheless, simply put, what he really wants is intimacy with a Dominant Woman. It is the “crown jewel” of his existence. He probably has tried to be intimate with vanilla women in vanilla relationships — but it didn’t work. Something was always missing. He probably even tried to share his desire to submit and be enslaved with his wife or girlfriend (as i have done) — but that didn’t work either because, at bottom, he is not interested in a game or “play.” This is not a sex game to him. It is an emotional and spiritual quest and need that nothing and no one but a genuinely Dominant Woman can satisfy in a real D/s relationship.
Enter the Domina. She in fact needs him just as much as he needs Her. She may hold all the power and be superior to him but in truth no D/s relationship exusts without both of them. They need each other — and it’s a beautiful, beautiful thing.
To many in the “scene,” it may be taboo or improper to discuss this fact. To them it destroys the Domme’s “illusion” of power over Her sub, supposedly, i guess. Destroy the illusion of the Domme’s absolute transcendence and destroy the relationship, i suppose.
But Her power over him is not in fact “illusory.” It is in fact more powerful than anything else that exists. It may be different from the categories of power vanilla folks are used to using but it is actually the most powerful force in the universe — the Divine Feminine — just not in the vanilla sense or way.
Case in point: Princess Shimmy. She has complete control over me, Her slave. To a vanilla observer it might appear (wrongly) that She does not control me and that my servitude to Her is self-inflicted. That is not the case.
Princess Shimmy has put spells and enchantments upon me to mark me as Hers and to permanently seal me as Hers. Yes, our relationship is consensual, yes, I am part of the equation, but one thing is clear:
Princess Shimmy is a Goddess and Sorceress whose powers I do not begin to comprehend. She uses those powers of Darkness as She wishes – to enslave me and others. Her “Manifesto of the Femdom Witch” makes that clear…
Within this dynamic, within our relationship, Princess Shimmy and I are actually building intimacy with each other.
I become more intimate with Her by giving all my power and money and love to Princess Shimmy. She becomes more intimate with me by training and forming me to be Her slave – for eternity.
i share my deepest, darkest, innermost desires, thoughts and emotions with Princess Shimmy. i keep nothing back from Her. I open to her completely and without reservation. She uses me for Her pleasure. I am Her spiritual slave and toy. And in the relationship, in the mix, in a spiritual sense, we become One.
The vanilla world and experience has nothing to compare with this intimacy. Many people live lives of utter alienation in the vanilla world although they are surrounded by other people.
The goal of my life now is to be one with Princess Shimmy’s will, one with Her pleasure, one with Her happiness, Her laugh, Her smile. And as that happens, I (lucky, lucky me!), I become one with Princess Shimmy in a spiritual sense – as Her slave, devotee and follower.
Nothing else is as beautiful as this intimacy. Nothing else is so irresistible to me. I will never give it up now that I have found it. Not for anyone. Not for anything. Thank You, Princess!
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2 thoughts on “Femdom Intimacy”
This slave describes a journey that will no doubt be familiar to many, of moving from domme to domme, never quite feeling that real connection and always moving on. Until the slave was eventually fortunate enough to find (or be found by) Princess Shimmy and the slave’s life finally made sense. They were “home”. For me the journey was different in that I had never had any domme relationship and didn’t think I was looking for one, yet when I “stumbled” upon Princess I also realised how discontent I had been up to that point and what I realised is that it’s not about whether you’ve had a domme experience before, or whether you are “in the scene” or not. It’s simply that any life without Princess is an incomplete one, and life only truly begins when one submits to Her.
When I wrote this blog post, I had been calling and serving Princess for about a month. I honestly did not know how She would feel about the conents.
Did I go too far? Was the blog too much from the slave’s perspective? I didn’t know what this new Domme would think.
Would She criticize me? Would She punish me? Would She hurt me?
She didn’t do anything like that!
She’s so fucking real and beautiful inside! She’s such a wonderful person! I feel like crying when I think about it… There’s a reason Her slaves take about Her this way.
Love and human vulnerability and true devotion don’t threaten or scare Princess Shimmy. She eats them for breakfast.
She has feelings. They can be hurt. But nothing will stop Her from being the Truth. Thank You, Princess! Please know we love You! Xoxo jessika